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December 16, 2023
OWN YOUR OWN LIFE Locals Questions Answered!
Taking risks comes with responsibility. Examples like biking without hands and high-stakes bets show the futility of complaining. Choosing a quality partner and self-ownership are important considerations.
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Brief Summary
In this episode, we discuss the concept of taking risks and the responsibility that comes with it. We explore examples like biking without hands and high-stakes bets to illustrate the point that complaining about the outcome of a willing risk is futile. We also examine the risks in modern marriage and highlight the importance of choosing a quality partner over superficial qualities. Lastly, we mention the risks faced in the past and conclude with emphasizing the significance of self-ownership.
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0:00:00 Questioning the Relationship and Feeling Guilt and Shame
0:08:46 Challenging the notion of fault in failed marriages
0:17:21 Taking Responsibility for Relationships
0:19:21 The Effects of Personal Choice in Relationships
0:25:38 Motivations are Irrelevant, Actions Speak Louder
0:26:49 Respecting Voluntary Choices in Life
0:28:35 The Subjectivity of Value and Underpaid Claims
0:32:07 Understanding Risks and Complaints about Risks
0:36:44 Risk in the Modern World: Choosing Quality vs. Hot Mess
Long Summary
In this episode, we explore the concept of taking risks and the responsibility that comes with it. I stress that individuals cannot complain when a risk they willingly took does not have the desired outcome, comparing it to a gambler complaining about losing money. I use various examples such as biking without touching the handlebars or making high-stakes bets to illustrate this point.
I also discuss the risks involved in modern marriage and criticize those who complain about potential financial losses, highlighting the risks of the past such as illness and death. I emphasize the importance of choosing a quality partner rather than prioritizing physical attractiveness or a "hot mess" mentality.
Furthermore, I delve into the risks and difficulties faced in the past, including high rates of prostitution and diseases without cures. Through these historical examples, I suggest that risks and challenges are present in life regardless of the time period.
To conclude, I express my personal perspective on self-ownership and the importance of not allowing others to take it away. I also welcome donations to support the show.
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risks, concept, responsibility, biking without hands, high-stakes bets, complaining, outcome, willing risk, modern marriage, quality partner, superficial qualities, past risks, self-ownership
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Stef- Your tweet about forgiveness was clearly criticizing the choices of a woman who just lost her husband and had her life turned upside down. Of course you are going to get some heat for that. If she had forgiven him in the way that you imply in your follow-up podcast, she would be demanding that he was released from jail and that the charges were dropped. She hasn’t. As a matter of fact, she said that she wants the government to decide whether or not he should get the death penalty. She is letting go of the hatred in her heart for this POS.
The Christian community has not forgiven him. We cannot say that God has forgiven him. But Erika Kirk has forgiven him because it is the best thing FOR HER. Harboring resentment for this guy and seething with hatred for him- will do her no good. It will only effect her- and not in a positive way.
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