Hello Stefan, long time fan and former regular donor to the show. I'll cut to the chase. I grew up watching my parents fumble through life, failing at their marriage, parenthood, personal lives, virtually everything. I saw the childish behavior of my parents and their peers and vowed to myself that I would never become like them. It seemed like when I was younger I succeeded at it too. I grew up feeling like I was going to be the trail blazer of my family and I was going carve out a different path for myself, and show others the way. Without detailing the utter chaos that my twenties were in this E-mail, I sit here now, 31 years of age, with a beautiful baby daughter and a wife, realizing, that I am exactly like my parents. In so many ways it makes me want to vomit. I'm really struggling to cast these chains off of me. The only endeavors I succeed in are ones of destruction, instead of being a force for good. My siblings are all more or less the same too but they just don't see it, no matter what I say. I have listened to many call-ins of your show with people in a similar predicament, young men, struggling to get going in life, and they've been valuable for sure, but something just hasn't clicked with me yet. I feel like I am at the end of my rope, with so much to lose, and yet so much to give to the world if I could just exorcize myself from the ghosts and demons of my family history. Please help me Stefan.