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The Truth About Small Talk and Reading Social Cues
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QUESTION: I’m filled with thoughts but often find my mind blank when engaging with people who are fluent in small talk. What is the truth about people who love small talk? (Your reveal about shy people was legendary and extremely helpful)

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Small talk is important but shallow conversations can be dangerous. Inflexible mindsets and simplistic solutions hinder critical thinking. Beware of persuasive tricks and aim for meaningful discussions.

2023, Stefan Molyneux
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0:00:03 The Truth About Small Talk and Reading Social Cues
0:03:32 The Balance Between Small Talk and Depth of Conversation
0:08:57 The Danger of Shallow Slogans and Vanity Advertising
0:10:22 Complexity vs Simplicity: The Temptation of Violence
0:12:30 Small Talk and Shallow Solutions Enable Evil

Long Summary

In this part of the conversation, we delve into the topic of small talk and its significance in social interactions. Small talk serves as a social lubricant, allowing individuals to acknowledge each other's presence and display basic social skills. It is crucial to have a decent understanding of small talk as it helps in reading social cues and navigating social situations. While it is important to adjust behavior based on the comfort level of others, being overly obsessed with social conventions can hinder genuine social interactions. Nevertheless, being able to read the room and understand social cues is important, especially as women tend to value social status and the ability to read these cues. While small talk is a valuable skill, it should not be the only skill one possesses. It is essential to balance fine motor skills with broader skills.

However, in today's society, there seems to be a certain narrow-mindedness and hostility towards deeper conversations. This may be influenced by what is referred to as woke culture. Some individuals aggressively enforce a shallow and rigid mindset, labeling certain topics as inappropriate without providing valid reasons. The term "inappropriate" is subjective and undefined, often used as a tactic to discourage discussion rather than promote understanding. These individuals exert influence through tactics such as cold glances, withdrawal, and eye-rolling to discourage engagement with certain topics.

The main speaker reflects on their experience in lower social classes and notes that this rigidity stems from a lack of flexibility and curiosity. These individuals are referred to as the "period people," who rigidly adhere to certain beliefs without questioning them. The speaker criticizes the use of slogans that pass for wisdom and virtue but lack depth or knowledge. These slogans are employed to feign wisdom and exert control over people's thoughts and actions. Instead, the speaker emphasizes the importance of seeking complexity and engaging in philosophical inquiry to avoid the simplicity and brutality of violence. They advocate for critical thinking and question the effectiveness of central planning, emphasizing the preservation of property rights.

To highlight the absurdity of simplistic solutions, the speaker draws a comparison to protecting women from rape by forcing them into marriages. They argue that shallow-minded individuals prefer simplicity, and those in power exploit this preference by promoting slogans that foster impatience, aggression, and a likelihood of advocating violence. The speaker suggests that competition and voluntarism can provide checks and balances to prevent the misuse of power over children's minds.

If we continue to engage in shallow conversations, we cannot guarantee the absence of society-destroying propaganda machines. Shallow-minded individuals, addicted to small talk, strive to keep others in the shallow end because they have abandoned challenging virtue for simplistic slogans and shouting. This kills their conscience, although it cannot truly be eradicated, only entombed. They do not want others to ask foundational questions as it would expose their corruption and pretense of knowledge and virtue.

The speaker argues that individuals who claim to care about helping the poor by giving them money and believing everything will be perfect are being naive. Such simplistic thinking tempts people to resort to violence. The use of violence becomes necessary for those who enforce their beliefs because, without it, people might question their ignorance and lack of genuine concern for the poor. These individuals only care about appearing to care, while they are willing to sacrifice the poor and the future for their own image.

Similarly, those who advocate for government funding of the arts because they care about it fail to realize that it can limit critical art that challenges the government. Simple answers and solutions often justify violence and fail to address complex social issues. Shallow individuals engaged in small talk are typically plagued by a guilty conscience as they pretend to promote virtue while serving evil purposes. Their conscience is worse than that of an active evildoer because they deceive themselves and others.

The speaker highlights the danger of sophistic individuals who use persuasive tricks, as they can cause disastrous effects in collaboration with the state. Those who advocate for simplistic and coercive solutions instead of wise and curious exploration contribute to the terrible things happening in the world. They go to great lengths to ensure their deception remains hidden and strive to keep conversations shallow and full of small talk. However, it is crucial to recognize that small talk can pave the way for significant evils.

Brief Summary

In this part of the conversation, we discuss the significance of small talk and the dangers of shallow conversations. Small talk serves as a social lubricant but should not be the only skill we possess. Some individuals enforce a narrow-minded and rigid mindset, discouraging deeper discussions. This rigidity stems from a lack of curiosity and flexibility. Shallow slogans and simplistic solutions can justify violence and hinder critical thinking. The use of persuasive tricks by sophistic individuals can have disastrous effects. It is important to recognize the potential dangers of shallow conversations and strive for genuine and meaningful discussions.

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small talk, shallow conversations, social lubricant, narrow-mindedness, rigidity, lack of curiosity, flexibility, shallow slogans, simplistic solutions, violence, critical thinking, persuasive tricks
 

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[0:01] Hey everybody, Stephen Molyneux from Freedom Inn, hope you're doing well.

The Truth About Small Talk and Reading Social Cues


[0:03] All right, an interestingly deep question for y'all, which sounds shallow. So here we go.
Somebody says, I'm filled with thoughts, but often find my mind blank when engaging with people who are fluent in small talk.
What is the truth about people who love small talk? Your reveal about shy people was legendary, then extremely helpful, right?
Small talk.
Now small talk is a kind of social lubricant, you know, the small pleasantries that people, exchange back and forth to just acknowledge each other's presence and to show some sort of basic social skills and empathy.
It's a good thing to be decent at small talk. I don't think it's something you want to become a real expert at, but it's a good thing to be decent at small talk.
Okay, you can get by, you can do it on a sort of as-needed basis.
That's a fine thing, not a bad thing at all.
Remember, and this is particularly true for men, but also to some degree for women, are you relatively decent at, you know, what's called reading the room?
Can you read the room?
That's important, because if you don't get social cues very well, then you're less likely to be successful.

[1:21] Right? There's this joke, it's been around forever in comedy circles, where some bad thing happens and some bad sort of social war of it. And somebody makes a joke about it and then they say, too soon, too soon, yeah, it's too soon, right?
Is it too soon, right, because comedy is tragedy plus time. So can you read the room?
Are you good at reading social cues? Do you know if somebody's bored with what you're saying?
Do you know if somebody's actually finding you funny? Do you know if somebody's interested in what you're saying?
So are you good at reading the room? Do you know how to act appropriately in social situations?
Now, this doesn't mean being a slave to social situations. It doesn't mean having no identity.
It doesn't mean having no integrity. It's just, can you read particular social cues?
So for instance, somebody who's bad at reading social cues would be the petty criminal who decides to fight the cop.
I think that's not good at reading about legal cues, but also to some degree social cues.
Are you decent at reading social cues?
If somebody is acutely uncomfortable, then are you able to adjust your behavior?

[2:33] To act in recognition of that. It doesn't mean necessarily to make them feel better or anything like that, but just are you able to adjust your behavior in reaction to someone who's acutely uncomfortable?
So there's another real cliche in comedies, which is somebody gets kind of obsessed with doing something themselves.
They're obsessed with cleaning something under their nails and they really get into it.
Then other people look at them like, whoa, what are you doing? That kind of thing.
This is used a number of times in the 80s movie, The Breakfast Club, where the goth girl, the emo girl is biting at her nails or her cuticles or something, and everyone's looking at her like with that, what are you doing?
And that's an example of not reading social cues.
You get so into what you're doing that other people look at you like you've sprouted a second how to get an advertising head or something like that.
And that's an example of not reading social cues very well, And that's the problem.

The Balance Between Small Talk and Depth of Conversation


[3:32] You really should be, a lot of people feel like, oh, I'm not gonna be a slave to convention, I'm not gonna read social cues. And it's like, okay, well, that's fine.
You can do that, but it's gonna harm your dating prospects.
In particular, women tend to be a little bit more concerned about social status and reading the room and reading social cues and so on.
Reading social cues doesn't mean that you're a slave.
If somebody's uncomfortable, reading the social cue simply means noticing that they're uncomfortable.
And whether you deal with that or not, but at least noticing it.
Maybe you'll take some steps to make them more comfortable, maybe you'll drop the topic, or maybe, you know, if you are engaged in some sort of hostile debate, maybe you'll press your advantage and really push verbally hard down on where they're the least comfortable.
Like it could be any number of things, but you've got to at least know what's going on.

[4:22] What you do with it is a different matter, but you have to at least be able to read the room.
So, being able to do small talk is fine.
Now, you want to be able to do small talk, you don't want to be only able to do small talk.
Does that make sense?
You want to have fine motor skills, but you don't want to only have fine motor skills.
Like you want to be able to thread a needle, I suppose, but you also want to be able to lift heavy weights and run away from a bear, right? You need your big, big ass.

[4:54] Skills as well as just sort of fine motor skills. So you don't want to be a slave to social convention in this way.
There is a certain kind of small-minded, narrow-minded, rigid personality structure that is quite hostile towards anything of depth.
I mean I think we, it's almost the default position these days to be hostile and frightened and aggressive towards anything of any depth.
I don't, this is an old Seinfeld joke, I don't really think we're supposed to be talking about this.
You know that kind of stuff, right? Keep it shallow, keep it goofy, keep it nonsensical and so on.
As sort of woke culture has expanded, or woke anti-culture has expanded, this has become more and more common.

[5:38] So there are people who are desperate to keep topics relentlessly shallow, inconsequential and unimportant.
And they do that with quite an aggressive rigidity. And this is where the word inappropriate comes from, this is inappropriate to talk about.
Well of course the question is always well appropriate to what, who defines it, what does it mean relative to, whatever else is going on.
So it's never defined, it's just a generic negative term that is supposed to make you feel bad and thus train you into not talking about particular topics rather than give you, a reason for not talking about particular topics.
So yeah inappropriate, getting cold angry glances shot at you, people withdrawing, people rolling their eyes, these are all designed to program you into avoiding particular topics.
Now, I was thinking about this just over the last couple of days, sort of what is it that characterizes some of the worst aspects of the lower classes that I kind of crawled my way out of, and one of them is this intense rigidity, with regards to thoughts and ideas.
There's no flexibility, there's no curiosity, and I've referred to them as the period people.
You know, it's just this way, period.
You know, hate has no home here. It's like, what does that even mean?
Does that mean you hate people?

[6:53] Hate? What if they hate evil? It doesn't mean anything. It's just, well, when people say, hate has no home here, what they mean is that they are giving themselves license to hate people. Which is, I mean, it's kind of ironic, right? Intolerance has no home here! It's like, well then aren't you intolerant? And what if somebody's intolerant of intolerance?
Right? I mean, does that mean that... Anyway, so it's all just a bunch of nonsense. Has no home here means... has no home here is one of these threats of ostracism. It's designed, to kick into your unconscious and provoke the torture circuits that are stimulated by threats or enactments of ostracism. So that's what that sort of... hate has no home here means that you're going to threaten you with ostracism if you do something that I define as hate. We're allowed to hate the hateful even if the hateful are hating the hateful and the evil and anyway it's all a bunch of Pavlovian programmable brain vacuum nonsense but there are this rigidity and these slogans, right?
And these slogans pass for wisdom, these slogans pass for knowledge, these slogans pass for virtue but the slogans are stupid.
The slogans are stupid and you know, no human being is illegal, right?
It's just a stupid statement.
It's a stupid statement because of course there are tons of people who are illegal.

[8:22] Try not paying your taxes and see if you end up becoming illegal, right?
Try not paying for government schools. Anyway, so it's all, but these are just slogans, right?
Now when people pretend that they have wisdom because they have slogans, then they have, to skate on the shallowest of shallow surfaces of things because any depth reveals their pretense of wisdom.
Depth, any curiosity. This is back to the ancient battle between Socrates and the Sophists. The Sophists are those who pretend to have knowledge that they don't in fact.
And this is sort of the MPC thing, right? You get programmed with a bunch of slogans.

The Danger of Shallow Slogans and Vanity Advertising


[8:57] And you can see them, like people proudly display them on their lawns and so on, and we've sort of mentioned them here. Well, just a bunch of slogans. There's no depth, there's no knowledge. Like, you know, all of the people who say, well, you can't know anything for certain, man. Oh, really? Are you certain of that? You know, it's just, well, it's just stupid, stupid stuff. People are given slogans and they grab onto those slogans as a form of vanity advertising to pretend that they're deep and knowledgeable when they are, when they're not deep and knowledgeable and quite the opposite, right?
To give people slogans and have them pretend to be virtuous is one of the surest methods of advancing power and control over people.
The reason being that the way that you avoid the simplicity and stupidity of violence is with the depth and curiosity of philosophy.
That there aren't simple answers, that it's very complex because when there are simple answers, violence is very tempting. When there are complex answers, violence becomes less tempting, right? So idiots will say, well, we got a bunch of rich people, there's a couple of poor people, we'll just take money from the rich people, give it to the poor people and everyone will be fine, right? That's a stupid solution to a challenging problem.
And if you can get people to believe that, then the use of violence and the use of slogans, The use of violence and the boiling down of things to one variable simplicity idiot formulas, are very intertwined.

Complexity vs Simplicity: The Temptation of Violence


[10:22] Complexity is freedom. Simplicity often is brutality.
Now it's sort of like how should goods be allocated in society?
Well of course the stupid answer is to say, you know, that the wisest people should sit and distribute resources according to what's best for the economy.
Some sort of central planning nonsense, right? We say, well, how are they going to know?
And how can they be so wise? And how do they get chosen? And what happens if they're bad?
You know, there's just so many questions that...

[10:55] How do we protect our property? Well the government, but the government can only protect your property by taking it ahead of time so that's not really much of an answer now is it right?
It's like saying well we protect women from being raped by forcing them to marry men and then making no, there's no possibility of raping within a marriage.
So we're protecting women from rape, this would be the dumb argument right?
Women are getting raped, well we'll force women to marry men and then define marriage as that in which you cannot rape your wife and look at that, no rape, right?
It's all this sort of stuff, right? Rather than dealing with root causes you jiggle with the facts and think that you're a genius.
So you want to keep things complex, shallow people want to keep things simple.
Shallow people want to keep things simple. And those in power want to hand people slogans because by pretending that things are simple, They make people vain and impatient and aggressive and they both emotionally and from a sort of consequentialist standpoint raise the likelihood of advocating violence.
You know, if the government is just great at educating kids and kids need to be educated then of course we have to government educate children, right? That's the argument.
As opposed to, well, the greatest power any human beings have is over the mindset of children And how are people never, like how are you going to guarantee without competition and voluntarism that people will never use that power to ill?

[12:21] You can't guarantee that. And therefore you are setting yourself up for society destroying propaganda machines, right? Mills.

Small Talk and Shallow Solutions Enable Evil


[12:30] So shallow people, small talk addicted people, people who will try and punish you for veering, out of the shallow end of the conversation pool, well, the reason they want to keep you, in the shallow end, is the dead bodies of their former conscience is buried in the deep end.

[12:48] When you trade out your conscience for slogans, when you trade out challenging virtue for simplistic shouting, you kill your conscience.
I mean, you can't really kill it dead, but you entomb it for sure.
And in the same way that a guy who's killed a bunch of people and buried them in his backyard doesn't want you rooting around his backyard, people who have traded in their conscience for empty stupid sloganeering, don't want you asking any foundational questions because that will reveal their own corruption and their own pretense of knowledge and virtue, right? So the people who say I care about the poor and we should just give the poor money and then they won't be poor and everything will be great, well that's, it's dumb. And, because it's dumb it tempts people to violence. The reason for that, well if, If it's so simple you might as well just use coercion to achieve it, that's number one.
And number two, they need it enacted through violence because otherwise people will start asking uncomfortable questions, reveal their own appalling lack of ignorance or thought, or care about the actual subject, their lack of caring about the poor.
They only care about people perceiving that they care about the poor, they don't actually care about the poor and they're perfectly willing to sacrifice the poor and the future, the poor in order to pretend to...

[14:08] To believe that they care and so I care about the arts so the government should fund the arts. It's like well the arts is very powerful ways of programming people and will the government fund art that is critical of the government?
Well probably not and therefore you're losing a pretty powerful way of pushing back against expansions of government power which is terrible and so on right?
So again simple answers provoke violence or justify violence because if it's that simple, just get it done with a gun. And also because complex questions that are allowed in the vicinity unravel the vanity and narcissistic ignorance of people masquerading as deep, rich, wise and tender-hearted virtues. So yeah, shallow people in that sense, the people who are constantly promoting small talk. And it doesn't just necessarily mean about sports and the weather, although that's certainly part of it, but it also has to do with stupid.

[15:06] Solutions to complex social problems, like take money from the rich and give them to, the poor. Well isn't that the use of coercion?
Well, a lot of rich people get their money from coercion as well, well do two wrongs justify a right?
And all this kind of stuff, right? So yeah, it's really bad.
For the most part, and I've only penetrated this a couple of times, so this is not exactly scientific, but for the most part, when people are relentlessly addicted to small talk, it's because they have a really bad conscience.
They have a really bad conscience because they're pretending to promote virtue while, being in the service of evil, for the most part, right?

[15:42] By promoting simple, coercive solutions to complex social problems, they're pretending, to be virtuous while actually serving evil. Well that's going to give you a very, very, very bad conscience.
In fact it's going to give you in some ways a worse conscience than actively doing evil.
A thief has a better conscience than a sophist because the thief is not lying to himself, or to others about what he's doing.
I mean, a sophist is more of a con man, but a con man can only target people who voluntarily walk into his trap, but the sophist can, in conjunction with the state, produce absolutely, completely disastrous effects that affect hundreds of millions or billions of people in a pretty permanent and escalating kind of way.
So the sophist is more dangerous than the thief in many ways, and those who advocate stupid, coercive slogans in the place of sophisticated and curious wisdom are, I mean, doing really, really terrible things in the world.
And because they never want that revealed to themselves, least of all, they never want, you to find the bodies in the deep end. They got to keep you shallow.
They got to keep small talk.
Small talk births very, very big evils.
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Just as drug addicts would rather destroy lives than stop using – political addicts would rather be slaves in their own sick system than free in a rational, moral world. 

If we cannot find a way to transmit morals without lies or assumptions, we will never break the self-destructive cycle of civilization – success breeds unequal wealth, which breeds resentment and greed, which breeds stealing from the successful through political power, which collapses the society. 

If we cannot anchor morals in reason and evidence, we can never build a successful civilization that does not engineer its own demise. Everything good that mankind builds will forever be dismantled using the same tools that were used to build it. 

Since the fall of religion in the West – inevitable given the wild successes of the free market and modern science and medicinewhich came out of skepticism, reason and the Enlightenment – we have applied critical reasoning to every sphere except morality. We have spun spaceships out of the solar system, plumbed the depths of the atom and cast our minds back to the very nanoseconds after our universe came into being – but we cannot yet clearly state why murder, rape, theft and assault are wrong. 

We can say that they are “wrong” because they feel bad, or are harmful to social cohesion, or because God commands it, or because they are against the law – but that does not help us understand what morality is, or how it is proven. 

Saying that rape is wrong because it feels bad to the victim does not answer why rape is wrong. Clearly it feels ‘good’ to the rapist – otherwise rape would not exist. 

Saying it harms social happiness or cohesion is a category error, since ‘society’ does not exist empirically. Individuals act in their own perceived self-interest. From an evolutionary perspective, ‘rape’ is common. The amoral genes of an ugly man that no woman wants are rewarded for rape, since it gives them at least some chance to survive. 

Saying that rape is wrong because God commands it does not answer the question – it is an appeal to an unreasoning authority that cannot be directly questioned. 

Saying that rape is wrong because it is illegal is begging the question. Many evil things throughout history have been legal, and many good things – such as free speech and absolute private property – are currently criminalized. 

Saying that rape is wrong because it makes the victim unhappy is not a moral argument – it is a strange argument from hedonism, in that the ‘morality’ of an action is measured only by pleasure and painWe often inflict significant misery on people in order to heal or educate them. We punish children – often harshly. The ‘hedonism’ argument is also used to justify sacrificing free speech on the altar of self-proclaimed ‘offense’ and ‘upset.’ 

So… 

Why is rape wrong? 

Why are murder, theft and assault immoral? 

A central tenet of modernity has been the confirmation of personal experience through universal laws that end up utterly blowing our minds. 

The theory of gravity affirms our immediate experience of weight and balance and throwing and catching – and also that we are standing on giant spinning ball rocketing around a star that is itself rocketing around a galaxy. We feel still; we are in fact in blinding motion. The sun and the moon appear to be the same size – they are in fact vastly different. It looks like the stars go round the Earth, but they don’t 

Science confirms our most immediate experiences, while blowing our minds about the universe as a whole. 

If you expand your local observations – “everything I drop falls” – to the universal – “everything in the universe falls” – you radically rewrite your entire world-view. 

If you take the speed of light as constant, your perception of time and space change forever – and you also unlock the power of the atom, for better and for worse. 

If you take the principles of selective breeding and animal husbandry and apply them to life for the last four billion years, you get the theory of evolution, and your world-view is forever changed – for the better, but the transition is dizzying. 

If we take our most common moral instincts – that rape, theft, assault and murder are wrong – and truly universalize them, our world-view also changes forever – better, more accuratemore moral – but also deeply disturbing, disorienting and dizzying. 

But we cannot universalize what we cannot prove – this would just be the attempt to turn personal preferences into universal rules: “I like blue, therefore blue is universally preferable.” 

No, we must first prove morality – only then can we universalize it. 

To prove morality, we must first accept that anything that is impossible cannot also be true. 

It cannot be true that a man can walk north and south at the same time. 

It cannot be true that a ball can fall up and down at the same time. 

It cannot be true that gases both expand and contract when heated. 

It cannot be true that water both boils and freezes at the same temperature. 

It cannot be true that 2 plus 2 equals both 4 and 5. 

If all men are mortal, and Socrates is a man, then it cannot be true that Socrates is immortal. 

If you say that impossible things can be true, then you are saying that you have a standard of truth that includes both truth and the opposite of truth, which is itself impossible. 

The impossible is the opposite of the possible – if you say that both the possible and the impossible can be true, then you are saying that your standard for truth has two opposite standards, which cannot be valid. This would be like saying that the proof of a scientific theory is conformity with reason and evidence, and also the opposite of conformity with reason and evidence, or that profit in a company equals both making money, and losing money. 

All morality is universally preferable behaviourin that it categorizes behaviour that should ideally be chosen or avoided by all people, at all timesWe do not say that rape is evil only on Wednesdays, or 1° north of the equator, or only by tall people. Rape is always and forever wrong – we understand this instinctively, though it is a challenge to prove it rationally. 

Remember, that which is impossible can never be true. 

If we put forward the proposition that “rape is universally preferable behaviour,” can that ever be true? 

If it is impossible, it can never be true. 

If we logically analyse the proposition that “rape is universally preferable behaviour,” we quickly find that it is impossible. 

The statement demands that everyone prefers rape – to rape and be raped at all times, and under all circumstances. 

Aside from the logistical challenges of both raping and being raped at the same time, the entire proposition immediately contradicts itself. Since it is self-contradictory, it is impossible, and if it is impossible, it can neither be true nor valid. 

If “rape is universally preferable behaviour,” then everyone must want to rape and be raped at all times. 

However, rape is by definition violently unwanted sexual behaviour. 

In other words, it is only “rape” because it is decidedly not preferred. 

Since the category “rape” only exists because one person wants it, while the other person – his or her victim – desperately does not want itrape cannot be universally preferable. 

No behaviour that only exists because one person wants it, and the other person does not, can ever be in the category of “universally preferable.” 

Therefore, it is impossible that rape is universally preferable behaviour. 

What about the opposite? Not raping? 

Can “not raping” logically ever be “universally preferable behaviour”? 

In other words, are there innate self-contradictions in the statement “not raping is universally preferable behaviour”? 

No. 

Everyone on the planet can simultaneously “not rape” without logical self-contradiction. Two neighbours can both be gardening at the same time – which is “not raping” – without self-contradiction. All of humanity can operate under the “don’t rape” rule without any logical contradictions whatsoever. 

Therefore, when we say that “rape is wrong,” we mean this in a dual sense – rape is morally wrong, and it is morally wrong because any attempt to make rape “moral” – i.e. universally preferable behaviour – creates immediate self-contradictions, and therefore is impossible, and therefore cannot be correct or valid. 

It is both morally and logically wrong. 

What about assault? 

Well, assault occurs when one person violently attacks another person who does not want the attack to occur. (This does not apply to sports such as boxing or wrestling where aggressive attacks are agreed to beforehand.) 

This follows the same asymmetry as rape. 

Assault can never be universally preferable behaviour, because if it were, everyone must want to assault and be assaulted at all times and under all circumstances. 

However, if you want to be assaulted, then it is not assault. 

Boom. 

What about theft? 

Well, theft is the unwanted transfer of property. 

To say that theft is universally preferable behaviour is to argue that everyone must want to steal and be stolen from at all times, and under all circumstances. 

However, if you want to be stolen from, it is not theft – the category completely disappears when it is universalized. 

If I want you to take my property, you are not stealing from me. 

If I put a couch by the side of the road with a sign saying “TAKE ME,” I cannot call you a thief for taking the couch. 

Theft cannot be universally preferable behaviour because again, it is asymmetrical, in that it is wanted by one party – the thief – but desperately not wanted by the other party – the person stolen from. 

If a category only exists because one person wants it, but the other person doesn’t, it cannot fall under the category of “universally preferable behaviour.” 

The same goes for murder. 

Murder is the unwanted killing of another. 

If someone wants to be killed, this would fall under the category of euthanasia, which is different from murder, which is decidedly unwanted. 

In this way, rape, theft, assault and murder can never be universally preferable behaviours. 

The nonaggression principle and a respect for property rights fully conform to rational morality, in that they can be universalized with perfect consistency. 

There is no contradiction in the proposal that everyone should respect persons and property at all times. To not initiate the use of force, and to not steal, are both perfectly logically consistent. 

Of course, morality exists because people want to do evil – we do not live in heaven, at least not yet. 

Universally preferable behaviour is a method of evaluating moral propositions which entirely accepts that some people want to do evil. 

The reason why it is so essential is because the greatest evils in the world are done not by violent or greedy individuals, but rather by false moral systems such as fascism, communism, socialism and so on. 

In the 20th century alone, governments murdered 250 million of their own citizens – outside of war, just slaughtering them in the streets, in gulags and concentration camps. 

Individual murderers can at worst kill only a few dozen people in their lifetime, and such serial killers are extraordinarily rare. 

Compare this to the toll of war. 

A thief may steal your car, but it takes a government to have you born into millions of dollars of intergenerational debt and unfunded liabilities. 

Now, remember when I told you that when we universalize your individual experience, we end up with great and dizzying truths? 

Get ready. 

What is theft? 

The unwanted transfer of property, usually through the threat of force. 

What is the national debt? 

The unwanted transfer of property, through the threat of force. 

Individuals in governments have run up incomprehensible debts to be paid by the next generations – the ultimate example of “taxation without representation.” 

The concept of “government” is a moral theory, just like “slavery” and “theocracy” and “honour killings.” 

The theory is that some individuals must initiate the use of force, while other individuals are banned from initiating the use of force. 

Those within the “government” are defined by their moral and legal rights to initiate the use of force, while those outside the “government” are defined by moral and legal bans on initiating the use of force. 

This is an entirely contradictory moral theory. 

If initiating the use of force is wrong, then it is wrong for everyone, since morality is universally preferable behaviour. 

If all men are mortal, we cannot say that Socrates is both a man and immortal. 

If initiating force is universally wrong, we cannot say that it is wrong for some people, but right for others. 

“Government” is a moral theory that is entirely self-contradictory – and that which is self-contradictory is impossible – as we accepted earlier – and thus cannot be valid. 

If a biologist creates a category called “mammal” which is defined by being warm-blooded,” is it valid to include cold-blooded creatures in that category? 

Of course not. 

If a physicist proposes a rule that all matter has the property of gravity, can he also say that obsidian has the property of antigravity? 

Of course not. 

If all matter has gravity, and obsidian is composed of matter, then obsidian must have gravity. 

If we say that morality applies to all humanscan we create a separate category of humans for which the opposite of morality applies? 

Of course not. 

I mean, we can do whatever we want, but it’s neither true nor moral. 

If we look at something like counterfeiting, we understand that counterfeiting is the creation of pretend currency based on no underlying value or limitation. 

Counterfeiting is illegal for private citizens, but legal – and indeed encouraged – for those protected by the government. 

Thus, by the moral theory of “government,” that which is evil for one person, is virtuous for another. 

No. 

False. 

That which is self-contradictory cannot stand. 

People who live by ignoring obvious self-contradictions are generally called insane. 

They cannot succeed for long in this life. 

Societies that live by ignoring obvious self-contradictions are also insane, although we generally call them degenerate, decadent, declining and corrupt. 

Such societies cannot succeed for long in this world. 

The only real power – the essence of political power – is to create opposite moral categories for power-mongers. 

What is evil for you is good for them. 

It is disorienting to take our personal morals and truly universalize them. 

So what? 

Do you think we have reached the perfect end of our moral journey as a species? 

Is there nothing left to improve upon when it comes to virtue? 

Every evil person creates opposite standards for themselves – the thief says that he can steal, but others should not, because he doesn’t like to be stolen from! 

Politicians say that they must use violence, but citizens must not. 

Nothing that is self-contradictory can last for long. 

You think we have finished our moral journey? 

Of course not. 

Shake off your stupor, wake up to the corruption all around and within you. 

Like “government,” slavery was a universal morally-justified ethic for almost all of human history. 

Until it wasn’t. 

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