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December 20, 2023
You Are At Fault for Having a Manipulative Mother!
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Brief Summary
In this episode, we address the concerns of a listener struggling with an abusive mother. It's important to remember that you're not alone in this situation. Take responsibility for your choices and confront the abuse. Illness is not an excuse for manipulation. Prioritize your well-being and establish boundaries. You have the power to decide whether to connect or leave. Seek support from communities and resources. You deserve respect and care.
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0:00:00 Introduction and Promotion of Freedomaniacs Community
0:09:13 Being Prepared for Hard Times
0:11:50 The Elite and the Struggle to Connect
0:17:32 Connecting with People: The Challenge of Average vs Extremes
0:19:04 The Cognitive Elite and Conscience
0:20:49 High intelligence, lack of dedication to objectivity and virtue
0:30:02 The perversion of sexuality due to childhood trauma
0:34:00 Attraction to narcissistic women due to upbringing
0:38:03 Frustrations with phone troubles and attempts to fix it
0:41:55 Dealing with guilt from an aging mother and taking responsibility
0:45:30 The Power of Abusive Parents: Young and Old
0:47:35 Deep Corruption: More Practiced or Better Reform?
0:50:16 Delayed Action: Why Wait so Long to Address Abuse?
0:53:04 Self-Pity vs. Taking Ownership: The Consequences of Inaction
0:54:42 Manipulation and Bullying: A Cycle of Compliance
0:57:11 Confronting the Manipulation: A Path to Healing
0:58:24 Confronting Mother: Indirect vs Direct Approach
Long Summary
In this episode, we address the concerns of a listener who is struggling with their relationship with their abusive mother. It's a tough situation to be in, and I understand the pain and confusion that it can bring.
First and foremost, I want to emphasize that you are not alone in this. Many people have faced similar challenges with their family members, and it's important to remember that you have the right to prioritize your own well-being.
I urge you to take responsibility for your choices and confront the abuse. It may seem intimidating, but by having an honest conversation with your mother about your unhappiness and the negative aspects of your relationship, you can begin to establish boundaries and create a healthier dynamic.
It's important to note that illness is not an excuse for manipulation. While your mother may be suffering from an illness, it does not justify her abusive behavior. It's crucial to prioritize your long-term well-being over short-term happiness.
You have the power to make the decision to either connect or leave the relationship. It won't be easy, and the outcome is uncertain, but by making a choice that aligns with your values and fosters a sense of self-respect, you can find a path towards healing.
I want to thank you for reaching out with your question. It takes strength and courage to confront these challenging situations. Remember, you are not alone, and there are communities and resources available to support you on this journey.
If you're looking for additional support, I encourage you to join our community or explore other resources that may provide guidance and assistance. Thank you for being a part of our show, and remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and care.
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The concept of Universal Consequentialism 😱
A year ago, I presented a different view of consequentialism in this community, which is to devide the concept into rational and irrational consequentialism.
Here's a different approach to explain what consequentialism actually is, based on an example Stefan is providing in his book "Peaceful Parenting", chapter 11, page 153, timestamp 38:19 in the audio book. Quote:
"Since you are all very clever readers, you will be replying to me in your mind something along the lines of this: 'Ah, you say, Mr. Philosopher, that no one can accurately predict the future, but you also state that hitting children has negative outcomes!'
That is certainly true – both that I make that claim, and that hitting children does have generally negative outcomes.
However, we do not judge the morality of hitting children based upon positive or negative outcomes.
For instance, we know that state control of the economy leads to massive inefficiencies – but we don't judge the morality of state control of ...
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